Feel like shit for only 0.53€!
Apr 27, 2010 20:42:25 GMT
Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2010 20:42:25 GMT
This evening I went to the Chinese supermarket to get some extremely urgent cilantro, pork belly, beer and a few other necessities of life.
Checkout was long and slow, and just ahead of me was a little boy of African origin, perhaps 6 years old, buying a box of ice cream treats (something or other on a stick). However, when the cashier scanned the item, it came up at 2.43€ and the little boy was clutching only 1.90€ in his hand.
While Chinese cashiers are generally without mercy, even this one seemed upset by the situation, and the little boy had big wet eyes, just like the cat in Shrek. This ice cream might have been his dinner, because lots of African women work as cleaners or whatever until 10pm or even later. He was fending for himself.
The cashier remembered that she could be fired on the spot for accepting an underpayment. I was already reaching into my pocket for the missing amount of 0.53€. It was certainly nothing to me, and I was getting ready to buy about 20€ worth of not really necessary crap.
But my hand froze as I wondered "Is this condescending behavior?" "Is this the proper example to give a small child?" "Should poor people be taught to live within their means?" -- etc. And I decided that I should not supply the missing money.
The cashier called over "the man with the key" to cancel the operation and gave the coins back to the little boy. The box of ice cream was carried away to the freezer case. The little boy just stood there not really understanding what had just happened. Had he just lost his dinner, his greatly desired treat?
The cashier moved on to my items, ignoring the little boy. But an African man from the next lane came over to supply the missing money. The ice cream was brought back, the proper amount was paid, and the little boy left the store with his treasure.
My frozen hand in my pocket called me a racist, a xenophobe, a miser, a generally bad person for not having paid. The African man probably earns minimum wage and 0.53€ might be a lot of money for him, but he did the generous act, even if the kid should have maybe been eating something else.
I was just the guy with a pocketful of useless money who didn't help when I could have done so.
Checkout was long and slow, and just ahead of me was a little boy of African origin, perhaps 6 years old, buying a box of ice cream treats (something or other on a stick). However, when the cashier scanned the item, it came up at 2.43€ and the little boy was clutching only 1.90€ in his hand.
While Chinese cashiers are generally without mercy, even this one seemed upset by the situation, and the little boy had big wet eyes, just like the cat in Shrek. This ice cream might have been his dinner, because lots of African women work as cleaners or whatever until 10pm or even later. He was fending for himself.
The cashier remembered that she could be fired on the spot for accepting an underpayment. I was already reaching into my pocket for the missing amount of 0.53€. It was certainly nothing to me, and I was getting ready to buy about 20€ worth of not really necessary crap.
But my hand froze as I wondered "Is this condescending behavior?" "Is this the proper example to give a small child?" "Should poor people be taught to live within their means?" -- etc. And I decided that I should not supply the missing money.
The cashier called over "the man with the key" to cancel the operation and gave the coins back to the little boy. The box of ice cream was carried away to the freezer case. The little boy just stood there not really understanding what had just happened. Had he just lost his dinner, his greatly desired treat?
The cashier moved on to my items, ignoring the little boy. But an African man from the next lane came over to supply the missing money. The ice cream was brought back, the proper amount was paid, and the little boy left the store with his treasure.
My frozen hand in my pocket called me a racist, a xenophobe, a miser, a generally bad person for not having paid. The African man probably earns minimum wage and 0.53€ might be a lot of money for him, but he did the generous act, even if the kid should have maybe been eating something else.
I was just the guy with a pocketful of useless money who didn't help when I could have done so.